Recently in Wedding Category
Corner bits had to be divided up evenly of course ;)
Yesterday was a running around type of day.
Today is frantic packing and cleaning...
We never did find that bird... hope it doesn't smell too much for the housesitter!!
Heading up to Sydney soon and fly out on our honeymoon tomorrow morning.
I probably won't be blogging too much while we're away.. will depend on net access. Will try and twitter a lot more regulary, assuming my global roaming works!
Got myself ready, then went for a drive in Scotty's new car because we had nothing better to do :)
Josie came around 10am and then the process of curling my hair began.
An hour and a half or so later....
Then my head became a pincushion for all the pins to hold up my hair. hrmm.. heh. Josie also did up all my makeup.
So Kerry cooked us up some lunch while we waited for my parents to turn up (with the bouquet and flowers). They eventually did but very late. They ate their lunch then rushed off to get Stu's bag to take to the reception venue/hotel. While I sat there at about 1:30 thinking it's really time to be getting dressed now, but George and Kerry were all "no you'll have to sit around for too long in it" .. hrmm. At 1:45 I said no really, let's get dressed, so we did. And a good thing too, as it still ended up being rushed at the end :/ Because they all had to get ready too, then people were coming and going and my parents still hadn't returned and it was starting to get stressful. Eventually the parents got back, but then they had to get ready too. So the whole last half hour was very rushed, and didn't get all the photos I would have liked. Oh well.
So we packed off J&G, and mum and then Dad and I hopped in the car with "other Stu" for the ride to the church. Stu had had some trouble attaching the ribbons to the car, and one actually came off at one end during the trip.. oops! So we stopped just round the corner from the church to reattach it heh. Arrived at the church pretty much dead on time. To be met by the paparazzi. Honestly it was hilarious, so many photographers there and lots of very nice cameras!
Managed to get my dress out of the car, had some more photos, then it was up to the church....
It was all very exciting. Think we walked down the aisle a little too quickly though. And so many cameras!!
We should have had leaders for the singing, as people didn't "get" the boy/girl bits.. so it was a little silly, and the organist played them a little too slowly too which didn't help.
I remembered my vows. But after a little hesitation on the second line when Stu was doing his, the minister prompted Stu all the way through his. Oh well. So we were married!!
Then it was things like lighting the Unity candle, signing of the register etc. And walked back down the aisle to Saint-Saëns' Symphony #3 (what else?? :) ).
Even more photographic chaos outside. We didn't know where to look! Lots of various family type shots were had and eventually we decided to head off to Lake Ginninderra for the "official" photos. We went to this lake rather than Lake Burley-Griffin because the tower would be in better light from that direction (and there was a nice park with lots of autum trees - all very pretty). So there were at least ten people all lined up taking photos, which was such a crackup. And they were all comparing the size of each others' .. lenses... hehe (my brother won! :) )
When we'd all had enough and run out of light, we all piled back into cars and headed off to the reception.
I had "A Touch of Elegance" do up fairly lights all around the hall, and they looked fantastic!! That and with the candelabras they provided, as well as 96 tealight candles I got off ebay, the room looked amazing.
Entrees then dinner was served in quick succession. People said the food was good, and what I ate of it was good, although I couldn't really fit much in given how tight my dress was, so I really just had a taste. But then they brought out the desserts almost immediately afterwards, which was very upsetting for me because they weren't paying any attention to my schedule for the night :(:( sigh. So that really stressed me out for the rest of the night, because then it felt like the whole night they were trying to rush us out the door (in the end most people had left well before the official 10:30 finish). *And* they ran out of some desserts, so people didn't get to choose at the end :(:(
So after dessert Damien did a speech, then Stu did one too, then we cut the cake and did the bridal "waltz" which was nothing like a waltz, but people thought it was amusing. At least it will be remembered!!
After the dance, took off back to our room and got out of my dress and slipped into something more comfortable. *Much* more comfortable!! Was able to walk around more, and even joined in some of the dancing. My playlist was relatively well received, although they did complain that some of the tracks were too slow to dance to! oops. But I really wasn't even expecting people to dance much at all.. so there you go. So deleted a few tracks towards the end and added some different ones in.
Stu and I stayed til the bitter end so we could collect everything up and take it back to our room. Because I was so stressed I didn't feel like being sociable, which meant a tonne of people just didn't get talked to by me, which was upsetting in itself. I felt really bad afterwards that I'd been so neglectful, and so the whole thing left me feeling very bitter about the night. Not helped by a massive pillow that I couldn't sleep well on. So in the morning we didn't even stay for breakfast we just took all our stuff and left very early. Thank goodness for maccas drive through! lol.
Anyways. Noone else really noticed the problems with the scheduling, and everybody that I did talk to said it was a great wedding and good food, so I was glad about that. Maybe one day I'll look back on it all and laugh.. hrm... hehee. (We went back today to pickup some things we left behind and settle accounts, and they were very apologetic about everything and took off some of the cost of the additional pre-dinner drinks, so that was all very much appreciated and left me feeling a lot better).
So we're now very happily married. Not that it feels a whole lot different. I suppose it'd be different if we hadn't been living together first.
We watched "The Wedding Singer" (or I listened to it rather as I didn't have my glasses on and couldn't see it) at Kerry's on the morning of the wedding while having my hair done. There was a part were Drew Barrymore's character said she didn't think the butthead dude was the right man for her. Which made me realise I never once had those thoughts about Stu. And I asked Stu if he'd ever had any thoughts like that either and he said no. So I reckon that's pretty darned cool!
I'm getting married today.. :)
Having bacon and eggs for breakfast. Hairdresser is coming at 10. Pretty much all organised.. I hope!
Next time I blog I'll be a married woman..! I will be Twittering a bit more often though..
See you on the flipside :)
So had a small bunch of my friends go out to the Dumpling Inn for a kind of a hen's night thing. It was very pleasant and gave some of my friends a chance to get to know each other before the wedding...
Thanks heaps guys that's great. Oh that everyone was as organised!
Which is kinda what I needed after such a crappy afternoon...
Was also going to cut up my own material for making bomboniere, but decided I didn't have enough and it wouldn't be as nice, so copped out bought some pre-made ones off ebay.
Called four florists today. One didn't do bouquets, another was booked out, and the other two didn't answer. That was as much as my Asperger's brain could deal with on one day, so will have to try again during the week.
Busy doing up the order of services.
Still far too many things to organise... :/
For years whenever I paid attention it was around the $300-$400 mark. Then just as we're getting engaged, the price skyrockets.
So now our wedding rings are going to cost a small fortune.
btw, thinking all of this is far too hard and expensive. Shoulda just eloped.