Results tagged “Clutter” from Kazza the Blank One
Wednesday Kit came over briefly after work for a bit of a cool off (not that she actually went *in* the pool - just her feet!).
Thursday the little brother and Kat came up with the tv and stayed. Kit and Ben came up as well. Stu was a little anxious about *stuff*, Kit had decided to quit her job, and all the extra people in the house made for a very strange night.
Friday the sweetie and I had a random day off. Stu went to the doctor, then we had brunch in town. Came home and started pulling out stuff to give away and throw out. Took a whole heap of fluoro lights and old magazines to Revolve and had a walk through the Big Green Shed which was fun. Also took several boxes of books to Lifeline. But didn't get too much else done. Watched Back to the Future II in the evening.
This morning went along to the Mint Open Day. I'll leave that for a separate post, but their event management and crowd control was just plain awful.
So mum was here overnight Christmas night. So didn't really get anything much done Boxing Day morning (we did beat the rain on a walk down to Chris' and raced back up during a brief lull - it pretty much rained solidly all day which was *awesome* for Canberra). Around midday she headed down to visit the little brother in Junee. I built SPACESHIP!! as well as started a jigsaw mum brought down for me.
In the evening Kit and later Ben came up for a while.
Yesterday morning I completely tided up the fish tank corner of the garage. Things had been dumped there for months and you had to climb over things just to feed the fish. Felt so much better to be able to go up to the fish tank without tripping over anything.
I also cleaned the kitchen and then almost completely cleared out the fridge. I pulled everything out except the condiment shelf, cleaned the shelves, threw out some yukky stuff (including something of Potty's that had rotted in sealed plastic cups that once they were out of the fridge expanded and went off with a BANG - it was soooo loud it made my ears ring and I screamed.. Stu put ear plugs in and took the other cup outside and popped it out there), and then rearranged everything back into the fridge in an orderly fashion. Felt so much better to have a clean fridge and be able to find everything again!
Then mum arrived back from Junee so didn't get anything much done after that. Leftover roast pork for dinner.
Today while mum was out and about I spent probably six hours tidying the "workshop" corner of the garage in front of my car. Mostly just organising all the crap that had just been dumped there over the past year or so. Felt so much better to be able to walk around that area of the garage without tripping over anything, and be able to find stuff again.
Also did a wander to feed Doc's cat, and pickup a key to feed Annie's cat.
Last night was one year since dad died. I've been listening to the list of "Dad songs" I posted last year.
Mum is doing well, and loving her new life in the retirement village.
There's some things I miss about dad (his technological knowledge and some of his quirks), and some things I certainly don't (his grumpy personality).
I still have dreams that he's still alive, or that he recovered and came home to a house/garage that we'd cleared out of all his stuff. The number of times I said "sorry dad" while we were getting rid of his stuff.. I think it haunted me slightly.
Yeah so what a marathon effort that cleanout was! It took us about sixteen months, although it really accelerated in the last two months when mum had to move out. I well and truly lost count of how many trips to Sydney I did!
So spent a couple of hours downstairs today looking around at all the stuff and taking lots of photos of it all. Correction, photos of a fraction of it all. What I thought was going to be big job is going to be a *huge* job. And the little brother definitely needs to inspect it all as well before we even consider getting rid of any of it. That, and waiting to get a more definitive diagnosis about what's happening with dad.
We went and saw Dad again this afternoon, and he was still depressed.
Then went to Ikea, but the thing I wanted to buy was out of stock - doh!!